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Getting Along Guide

Find a next step for conversations that feel difficult.

Find the original Getting Along Guide by situation, with links to reading, search and practice. Topics include cooperation, asking for help, saying no and personal boundaries.

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10 chapters · 77 situations · Chinese source

Start with your situation

Choose a topic close to your situation and visit the author’s text for practical steps and examples.

01

Campus cooperation

Group assignments and roommates

02

Asking for help

Making requests and responding to help

03

Internships & work

Sharing work and discussing feedback

04

Friends & money

Loans, shared expenses and budgets

05

Gatherings & privacy

Social pressure and private questions

06

Lasting relationships

Keeping in touch and setting distance

07

Social occasions

Invitations, introductions and hosting

08

Working together

Meetings and clarifying expectations

09

Family & partners

Shared decisions and personal space

10

Joining & leaving a job

Exploring roles and discussing offers

Put it into practice

Consider your relationship and existing agreements. Read the steps, exceptions and costs, then adapt the wording to your own voice. Notice the response before choosing what to do next.

These are experience-based suggestions. Check the applicable rules when school, workplace requirements or specific rights are involved.

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This independent, unofficial edition adapts the book and adds checklists and sharing. Chinese original by eternity4719 · CC BY 4.0

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